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Saw this on my note today:

"You can't hug yourself, you can't cry on your own shoulder, life is all about living for one another, so live with those who love you most."

And it somehow reminded me of the conversation I had with my officemate few days ago that left me so confused and terrible that I had to make mukmok and call a friend if I am really this terrible and not-so-graceful-at-all with some human beings(or maybe I just needed someone to comfort me [that's another story..] after my officemate bashed me with hurtful/truthful words I have to acknowledge). See, that alone pretty explains what that quote is about. No one can live alone. No matter how tough and brave you are, no matter how independent you are, there will always come a time that you'll be needing a hand to help you and to make you realize how wonderful it is to have a companion(companion talaga ang term? Lol).

things i have learned over the past few days.. -.-

• Things are not gonna be the way you wanted them to be just because you wanted it.
• To achieve something: you gotta work hard for it, push yourself beyond your limit, and go beyond your comfort zone.
• Ransacking your phonebook contacts when you're in trouble early in the morning might be the worst thing to do. But when all else fails, never call your ex(bless him), call your friend's ex instead!
• Never forget to ask for the taxi driver's calling card just in case you accidentally left your wallet in their car. ;)
• First thing first. Know the marital status of the person you are interested in.
• Never "hey" me especially when we are not close. Asa ka pa beetch.
• Sometimes you need to shut up someone's mouth to avoid your emotional break down in front of everybody. Lol. Stupid chismosa.
• Karma is a bitch. You'll never know when it'll crash you!
• You can find the person you want to spend the rest of your life with and be happy with him/her for quite some time, but you can lose him/her in the blink of an eye.
• You may have a lot of other choices out there, but you can’t give them a chance if your heart doesn’t want to. It wants what it wants. And more often than not, it wants what it can not have.
• Nothing is forever. Yes. N-O-T-H-I-N-G but B-U-L-L-C-R-A-P. Period.

i mean it.

Enjoy life while it last and make time for the things/people you love while you still can. Life is short so spend it wisely. Work to live, not live to work. At pakibabaan ng kaunti ang pride please.



“You will never find time for anything. If you want time you must make it.” - Charles Buxton

which reminds me again...

Lol. Its always funny and interesting when someone tells you a story and starts it with, "I was so drunk last night... blah blah blah..."


Oh well.. Which reminds me of a conversation I had with a friend last week. We were talking about ourselves because we just so love hearing things about ourselves. :) nah. We just love talking. Or not. No. We just love hearing stories maybe :)

So, we talked about "BLACK HUMOR". (Which I never knew there's such words/phrase like that). Funny Raffi. Lol. Ssshh.. He just invented that phrase by the way ;). *peace*

What he actually meant was, people being too confident and proud that they almost forgot to say a simple 'thanks' when someone praises them or their work. And he said im one of them. Omg noooooooo! I actually didnt got it at first until he gave me an example of what I usually do.

And. Shit. Yes.

It felt bad realizing that sometimes you become the person you thought you're not gonna be. Phew! I swear I do appreciate everything. Compliments, or any sorts of flattery, I do like them! I like hearing all the loves! I think Im just no good at showing people how appreciative I am. *sigh* I will, this time I promise. And sorry to those people I let down unintentionally, if there's any.

I wanna say my thanks to my friend for all the things you taught me.. For being true and nice all the time. Opps! Sorry not all the time, look at this.

Haha. Peace! :)